Do hetrosexual women like men? It may seem like a stupid question: surely the definition of hetrosexual women is that they find men sexually attractive. Well, yes, of course it is.
But what I hear, with alarming regularity, is something quite different. Often, the answer is “I fancy men but…..” followed by a huge list of caveats, ifs, buts and conditions. Could all of this be summarised to “I fancy men but I wish they were women”? Maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration but it feels that way at times.
Surely, you want a man to behave like a man, else you don’t want a man!
Now, I know we’re far from perfect; there are things we could do better. But peddling the “there are only two things wrong with men: everything they do and everything they say” line says to me you have a nasty case of cognitive dissonance. It’s like keeping your cat in a goldfish bowl: it won’t work. We don’t belong where you’re trying to put us. We’re supposed to be different from women: that’s the point!