Allow me first to make clear that I am speaking of F/M. I have no experience of M/M or F/F or F/F/M or any other combination.
I’ve arrived at the realisation that I prefer oral sex to anything else, particularly a 69. I can imagine giving up penetrative sex altogether.
I love to give oral because:
1. I can see and feel exactly what I’m doing.
2. It is the most effective method I’ve found to help my partner to orgasm.
I love to receive oral because:
1. It seems the most perfect and total acceptance of me by my partner.
2. It feels absolutely wonderful.
3. I don’t lose control, i.e. I don’t rush to orgasm before I’m ready.
I don’t need deep throat or CIM. I think these might be porn industry invents anyway and I can’t see any benefit.
I’d be interested to hear some feedback on this issue, from both men and women, if you’re not too shy, please. How does oral rate against penetrative sex for you? Do you prefer 69 or take it in turns? Do you also experience better control?